So this girl I was friends with in high school likes to go clubbing, can’t watch movies since she’ll get bored, always on her phone, always talking about boys and what not, basically total opposite of me.
Her birthday is coming up, they’re going clubbing (surprise) and which I said I would go if it were anywhere else but since it’s not I’ll pass. She started saying how I’m ignoring her, but “nbd”, our “friends” are open to new things, I’ll never know unless I try, etc. I told her I know I wouldn’t have a good time even if I went, I haven’t ignored her, she just never spoke to me for a few months, and I’ll hang out another time. She started saying she’s tried “so hard” to hang out with me but I was always busy (all I do is game or eat).
She’s asked me twice, I was out with a friend both times.
Saying “I miss you” ever 3 months doesn’t count as a friendship, I’ve asked her to hang out to which she was busy with her boyfriend. She said she was going to “cut back on drinking” then proceeds to go clubbing the day after I asked her to come over for drinks.
What do you want from me?